One can tell a lot about a person by how they leave things. It is also true that we learn a lot about people when we leave them. Leaving reminds us of what we can part and what we can’t and then offers us something new to look forward to.
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t leaving or letting go, but rather learning to start over. We must be willing to let go of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. Leaving isn’t a sign of weakness; it doesn’t mean you are giving up. There are times leaving has proved to be the greatest sign of strength for better things ahead than the one’s leaving behind.
Are we prepared to leave our comfort zone to reach a better place? Well if one can courage to leave behind what’s not for you anymore, the same courage will help you feel your way to what is. In all fairness none leaves where they are, until decisive where they rather want to be.
To leave is to go away or exit, exercised by one’s own choice or it can be asked by others. There are times one leaves the table if respect is no longer being served and then there are those leaving because staying requires effort.
Leaving a job, friend, authority, home is quite personal and sensitive. If exercised under influence of ego, doubt, ignorance, under pressure or in haste it brings its consequences to which one must not be surprised later. One works hard to leave a job in good terms as it’s crucial for future opportunities and it is often a fact people don’t leave companies they leave managers.
Little is known of any training well enough to teach how to deal with leaving, thus even elders can go wrong while leaving their pieces of mind that conflicts with young ones. But one aspect where none go wrong is to leave their children with learning and spiritual wisdom rather than only materialistic securities.
There are but two relationships one could hold with highest respect and never ever put it up for consideration to leave; one is that of the creator and the other is family. In these relationships the soul always knows what to do to heal itself, the challenge is silencing the mind. For many the misfortune is holding materialistic needs over family relationship. Trying to gain the world by distancing the soul and losing to what bonds and bring meaning to one’s life.
You cannot stop negative thoughts from coming into your mind but you can make sure they leave as quickly as they enter. One must solve problems for them to leave, not live with it. To leave the past and fears behind is being ready to face the worst, leaving stability in mind.
In spirituality "leave" often symbolizes the act of letting go, detaching from attachments and embracing change, often representing a necessary step in personal growth and spiritual development.
A conscious soul does better Dealings with Leaving. It cautions to leave behind ego, false sense and it prompts the self-surrendering to the Divine. If you create a chemistry of blissfulness within you, every action (karma) performed in this world will not leave a scratch upon you.
To meet the dear Lord one needs the learning to renounce pride and leave behind excessive emotional attachments. Having done this gurbani says "Raam rang kade utar na jaee.... "The Lord's love shall never leave or depart. They alone understand, unto who the perfect Guru gives it" SGGS Ang194.
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